The Complete System For Parenting Strong-Willed And Neurodivergent Kids That Actually Works
DECODE your child's behavior
GAIN genuine cooperation
CREATE lasting change
RECLAIM your confidence
BUILD a calm, connected home
Total Parenting Transformationn
The Universal Truth of Parenting
The Universal Truth of Parenting
Understanding Behavior
When you understand why your children behave the way they do, you’ll know what you can do about it – without yelling or intimidation.
It took almost 20 years working with children, adolescents and families before I fully appreciated this universal truth of parenting.
Lessons Made Simple
You don’t have to spend anywhere near as long to benefit from the lessons I’ve learned across a career working with families inside and outside the clinic
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That’s because you have Total Parenting Transformation.
Breaking the Cycle
I created this program when I realized so much ‘adult therapy’ could have been avoided if a generation of parents understood how to meet their child’s greatest needs.
But it doesn’t need to be that way for the next generation.
Break the Cycle and Build a Loving Legacy with Expert Guidance
You have the power to break the cycle and become a good ancestor by leaving a legacy based on kindness and understanding, not intimidation and fear. And you won’t be alone on your journey. You’ll have the advantage of a parenting expert in your pocket to guide you on your new path.
Total Parenting Transformation is the last and ONLY parenting program you’ll need for building a loving connection with your children and becoming the ‘good ancestor’ you wish you had as a child.
A Whole New Parenting Experience...
Imagine spending a day with your children and not wanting to hide in your room until bedtime or dreading the daily fights over turning tech off for the night! 🙈
A day where you feel empowered knowing that you can handle any parenting situation AND where you don’t yell or lose your cool 🙊
A whole new parenting experience based on connection, speaking calmly, compassion and simply enjoying being with your kids more (and being frustrated with them less).
It’s possible.
I know it’s possible because I’ve seen these changes in my own family, and I’ve also watched thousands of parents in my parenting programs do the same 🙌
And it’s possible for your family too!
6 Steps To Your Ideal Home Life
Dive in to the easy-to-understand modules and master the new way of parenting using evidence-based methods. More than 24hrs of powerful content to transform every aspect of your child’s mental health and emotional wellbeing (as well as your parenting experience).
Integrate and consolidate your learnings by completing the program’s worksheets and journal templates at your own pace. Feel confident as you implement all the new strategies in a structured way that gets results.
Click HERE for a foundational sample, the Temperament Chart.
AND GUIDANCE
Join our weekly, LIVE Q&A calls to have your questions answered directly by Heidi (or listen to the replay if you can’t make it).
Want to hear what one of these calls is like?
Click HERE to listen in on a recent question (and answer) around parental rage.
You’ll be supported every step of the way by not only Heidi, but other Total Parenting Transformation members in your exclusive Facebook community.
it the course around YOUR daily routine with our iOS and Android apps. Listen in the car, during meal prep or while you’re clearing the latest Lego creation from the middle of the hallway. Wherever you go, Total Parenting Transformation is with you!
If you join Total Parenting Transformation and don’t see positive change in your children after applying the techniques and strategies covered, we’ll refund you. Just send us an email in your first 7 days of joining and the admin crew will help you out. I want there to be NO RISK whatsoever when you decide to enroll and join the community!
Meet The Parents Who Actually Enjoy Family Time
Discover how real parents transformed chaos into calm and built deeper connections with their kids—without yelling, guilt, or guesswork.
“Having Heidi on the live calls is a lifesaver. Her superpower is
explaining complex content in an accessible way. Now I don’t feel so alone. Someone gets what it’s like inside our house!”
Mom of 3
“Having Heidi on the live calls is a lifesaver. Her superpower is
explaining complex content in an accessible way. Now I don’t feel so alone. Someone gets what it’s like inside our house!”
Mom of 3
Success Stories
Ready to transform your parenting today?
- 1,650+ answers in the Q&A Vault All videos timecoded and searchable by keyword 🤯
- 10 Weeks Of LIVE Q&A Calls With Heidi. Talk DIRECTLY with Heidi - not a 'coach'!
- Created By A Psychotherapist & Parenting Expert
- Make huge progress with proven approaches for parenting strong-willed kids, crafted across 20+ years in mental health
- Community Of Likeminded Parents. Who know what your life is like because they have a similar one...
- 40+ Hours Of Online Parenting Courses
- For all ages, neurotypical, neurodivergent, ADHD, autsism, and 'challenging' kids
- Lifetime Access To All Content. Revisit each year when new challenges pop up
- Lifetime Access To All Content. Revisit each year when new challenges pop up
- Listen Like A Podcast Because let's face it, you're busy!
- NO Risk Refund Policy! Not working? Rest easy with our 7-day money-back policy
- Join the community
- Pay monthly flexible commitment
- All features included
- Extra savings
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If you join Total Parenting Transformation and don’t see positive change in your children after applying the techniques and strategies covered, we’ll refund you.
Just send us an email in your first 7 days of joining and the admin crew will help you out. I want there to be NO RISK whatsoever when you decide to enroll and join the community!
What's Inside?
- The Old Way of Parenting The New Way of Parenting
- How We Change Behavior
- How Kids Learn
- The Buckets (AKA: YourChild’s Two Greatest Fears)
- How You Were Parented
- Shame and Vulnerability
- Temperament Traits – How far do genetics explain our mental health and psychological traits? And what does this mean for us parents when we communicate with our children?
- Polyvagal Theory – How your child’s automatic nervous system response impacts their ability to learn, and how you can create a safe environment for learning.
- M.O.V.E.S. – The only acronym you’ll need in the world of connection! The M.O.V.E.S technique is a simple, step-by-step script, and it’s my go-to when trying to communicate with others – whether that’s your children, partner, family, friends, or an even irate client!
- Emotional Maps – What does the map your parents gave you look like? Does it match the one you’d choose to work with today? Review and develop your emotional map this week.
- Emotional Regulation in Adults – “I hate it when I yell, but I don’t know what else to do!” … Learn why it can be so hard to regulate your emotions, and how to retrain your brain to stay calm and yell less.
- Emotional Regulation in Kids – Little people … big feelings. Make sense of the emotional storms your children encounter AND get the practical tools and scripts to navigate their meltdowns.
- Introduction to Anger – Build a solid understanding of anger’s origin, how to treat it, and practical strategies you can immediately implement with your family.
- Anger and Its Two BFFs – Which emotions does anger like to hang out with? Learn what they are and help your kids spot the anger warning signs before they spiral out of control.
- Effectively Managing Anger – Uncover a series of practical methods to manage and understand your child’s anger.
- Connection 101 – Learn what connection really means, and why it’s so vital in the relationship with our children.
- Practical Strategies To Build Connection – Arm yourself with the tools, techniques and word-for-word scripts used to build connection by thousands of parents around the world.
- Connection – Advanced. Get your connection-building PhD right here!
- Teens & Tech – Unpack my favourite, proven strategies to connect with teens and explore what it is they feel their parents are doing right.
- Becoming a Language Translator – Understand the languages everyone is speaking in your home. This can be a profound experience as you begin to see everyone is communicating in their own unique way.
- The research on strict parenting – Review the long-term research around strict parenting, and the effects it can have throughout a child’s lifetime.
- Conflict Management – Conflict management … the ground-zero for most discipline efforts. How do you manage conflict with your children?
- Setting limits – Discover the three key considerations to take into account BEFORE setting limits with your children.
- Self-esteem – Why do some people have high – and others have low – self-esteem? This video explores how to build your child’s self-esteem for life.
- Confidence – Learn how confidence is built and maintained in your children.
- Values – Learn why family values are at the core of any family system, review your own personal values, and create ones to apply with your kids!
- Family Contributions – We look at reframing ‘chores’ and what they can teach children about confidence and self-esteem by being a team player.
- Maintaining Routines – Routines are key to providing a sense of safety and security for children. We’ll look at how to create them & get buy-in.
- Family Meetings – Discover how families and parenting gurus use this tool to create a family culture of collaboration and connection.
- How to Regulate, Connect, & Coach Siblings in Conflict.
Emotion Coaching Our Children. - What to Say When Siblings are Fighting.
- Emotional Intelligence and Negotiation Skills.
- Reducing Insecurity and Competitiveness.
- Nurture Bonding and Prevent Future Rivalry.
- PAST – Where does anxiety come from? Learn how our upbringing impacts the way we manage our own anxiety.
- PRESENT – Why do we have anxiety, what does it look like, and what’s the relationship between genetics and anxiety?
- FUTURE – What can I do about it? Empower yourself with practical tools and strategies to help your child manage their anxiety.
- What are the types of abuse?
- Who are the people I should be looking out for?
- What are the signs of abuse?
- What is normal/concerning sexual behavior?
- Why don’t kids disclose sexual abuse?
- My child disclosed abuse. What should I do? Not do?
- How do I teach my child how to stay safe?
- 1,650+ answers in the Q&A Vault All videos timecoded and searchable by keyword 🤯
- 10 Weeks Of LIVE Q&A Calls With Heidi. Talk DIRECTLY with Heidi - not a 'coach'!
- Created By A Psychotherapist & Parenting Expert
- Make huge progress with proven approaches for parenting strong-willed kids, crafted across 20+ years in mental health
- Community Of Likeminded Parents. Who know what your life is like because they have a similar one
- 40+ Hours Of Online Parenting Courses
Proven Self-Healing Techniques. Real Life Results.
- For all ages, neurotypical, neurodivergent, ADHD, autsism, and 'challenging' kids
- Scripts, templates, diary prompts. Easy-to-use resources to get you on track and keep you there for faster results
- Lifetime Access To All Content. Revisit each year when new challenges pop up
- Listen Like A Podcast Because let's face it, you're busy!
- NO Risk Refund Policy! Not working? Rest easy with our 7-day money-back policy
