Happy, Confident And Cooperative Kids... Without Shame, Intimidation Or Fear Tactics
Transform your child’s behavior and start enjoying family time with the proven, no-yelling blueprint for parenting strong-willed kids who ‘won’t listen’.
The Universal Truth of Parenting
When you understand why your children behave the way they do, you’ll know what you can do about it – without yelling or intimidation.
It took almost 20 years working with children, adolescents and families before I fully appreciated this universal truth of parenting.
You don’t have to spend anywhere near as long to benefit from the lessons I’ve learned across a career working with families inside and outside the clinic.
That’s because you have Total Parenting Transformation.
I created this program when I realised so much ‘adult therapy’ could have been avoided if a generation of parents understood how to meet their child’s greatest needs.
But it doesn’t need to be that way for the next generation.
We now have access to decades of research that conclusively shows what we need to do to avoid ‘screwing our kids up’.
You have the power to break the cycle and become a good ancestor by leaving a legacy based on kindness and understanding, not intimidation and fear.
And you won’t be alone on your journey. You’ll have the advantage of a parenting expert in your pocket to guide you on your new path.
Total Parenting Transformation is the last and ONLY parenting program you’ll need for building a loving connection with your children and becoming the ‘good ancestor’ you wish you had as a child.
A Whole New Parenting Experience...
Imagine spending a day with your children and not wanting to hide in your room until bedtime or dreading the daily fights over turning tech off for the night! 🙈
A day where you feel empowered knowing that you can handle any parenting situation AND where you don’t yell or lose your cool 🙊
A whole new parenting experience based on connection, speaking calmly, compassion and simply enjoying being with your kids more (and being frustrated with them less).
It’s possible.
I know it’s possible because I’ve seen these changes in my own family, and I’ve also watched thousands of parents in my parenting programs do the same 🙌
And it’s possible for your family too!
6 Steps To Your Ideal Home Life
Step 1
VIDEO
COURSE
Dive in to the easy-to-understand modules and master the new way of parenting using evidence-based methods. More than 24hrs of powerful content to transform every aspect of your child’s mental health and emotional wellbeing (as well as your parenting experience).
Step 2
PERSONALIZED
ACTION PLAN
Integrate and consolidate your learnings by completing the program’s worksheets and journal templates at your own pace. Feel confident as you implement all the new strategies in a structured way that gets results.
Click HERE for a foundational sample, the Temperament Chart.
Step 3
EXPERT ADVICE
AND GUIDANCE
Join our weekly, LIVE Q&A calls to have your questions answered directly by Heidi (or listen to the replay if you can’t make it).
Step 4
PEER SUPPORT
AND COMMUNITY
You’ll be supported every step of the way by not only Heidi, but other Total Parenting Transformation members in your exclusive Facebook community.
Step 5
LISTEN WHILE
YOU'RE ON THE GO
Fit the course around YOUR daily routine and tune in to lessons and Q&A call replays like a podcast. Listen in the car, during meal prep or while you’re clearing the latest Lego creation from the middle of the hallway. Wherever you go, Total Parenting Transformation is with you!
Step 6
TRY IT
RISK-FREE
If you join Total Parenting Transformation and don’t see positive change in your children after applying the techniques and strategies covered, we’ll refund you. Just send us an email in your first 7 days of joining and the admin crew will help you out. I want there to be NO RISK whatsoever when you decide to enroll and join the community!
“You really feel like you’re supported in your unique situation. You feel like you’re part of a community. You feel like you’re part of something bigger.”
Eve (Mom of two)
“It turned me into a mom my daughters are proud of. You gave us a connection in our hearts to our kids, where they want to be with us.”
Sarah (Mom of two teens)
“It feels like a little community. You can see other people and know that you’re not in it on your own. We’ve all got similar issues and similar questions.”
Annabelle (Mom of two)
“You’ve changed my life. It’s possibly the best thing you can do to make sure your children are set up for the future. This will save my therapy bill in 10 years!”
Kimberley (Mom of twins)
Why You Need A Different Approach To Parenting
There are so many parenting courses, YouTube videos and books on traditional ‘positive parenting’ in the mainstream- it can be hard to find anything that actually works with strong-willed, ‘S.P.I.C.Y.’ kids!
Here’s why Total Parenting Transformation is the best investment you’ll make in your family this year (and many more to come!):
1. No Fluff
You’re not getting a program packed with a huge, overwhelming list of things you’ll never use. Instead, you’ll have concise, powerful and evidence-backed tools and concepts you can start using immediately to create a happier home – whatever that looks like for you.
2. Structured Learning
Total Parenting Transformation is a ‘hand-holding’, supportive program that keeps you on track and helps you build your learning on a step-by-step path – created by an experienced clinical psychotherapist who knows what works to improve connection, end power struggles and manage intense emotions.
3. Built On Practical Experience
Heidi is a mother of two and a qualified clinical psychotherapist focusing on anxiety and trauma-related issues with adults, children and schools across her 20-year career. So the content you’ll study is built on three unique perspectives: As the parent of a strong-willed S.P.I.C.Y. child herself; as a highly-experienced psychotherapist; and as a professional speaker with a deep insight into the educational needs of strong-willed kids.
4. Access To Heidi
When you become a Total Parenting Transformation student, you’ll receive an email with details of how to register for your first live Q&A calls. These sessions help you tweak your new parenting approach in real time and receive the support you need to actually implement your learnings. Many students also enjoy the community feel and accountability these calls provide (if you choose to use them that way).
5. No Overwhelm
Begin applying new strategies and tactics at a speed that suits you, following a proven, step-by-step process. No stressing about what to watch next, or how different concepts relate to each other. It’s all laid out for you to study at your own pace!
Here's what you'll get when you join...
1,650+ answers in the Q&A Vault
All videos timecoded and searchable by keyword 🤯
10 Weeks Of LIVE Q&A Calls With Heidi
Talk DIRECTLY with Heidi - not a 'coach'!
Created By A Psychotherapist & Parenting Expert
Make huge progress with proven approaches for parenting strong-willed kids, crafted across 20+ years in mental health
Community Of Likeminded Parents
Who know what your life is like because they have a similar one...
40+ Hours Of Online Parenting Courses
For all ages, neurotypical, neurodivergent, ADHD, autsism, and 'challenging' kids
Scripts, templates, diary prompts
Easy-to-use resources to get you on track and keep you there for faster results
Lifetime Access To All Content
Revisit each year when new challenges pop up
Listen Like A Podcast
Because let's face it, you're busy!
NO Risk Refund Policy!
Not working? Rest easy with our 7-day money-back policy
1,650+ answers in the Q&A Vault
All videos timecoded and searchable by keyword 🤯
10 Weeks Of LIVE Q&A Calls With Heidi
Talk DIRECTLY with Heidi - not a 'coach'!
Created By A Psychotherapist & Parenting Expert
Make huge progress with proven approaches for parenting strong-willed kids, crafted across 20+ years in mental health
Community Of Likeminded Parents
Who know what your life is like because they have a similar one...
40+ Hours Of Online Parenting Courses
For all ages, neurotypical, neurodivergent, ADHD, autsism, and 'challenging' kids
Scripts, templates, diary prompts
Easy-to-use resources to get you on track and keep you there for faster results
Lifetime Access To All Content
Revisit each year when new challenges pop up
Listen Like A Podcast
Because let's face it, you're busy!
100% 7-DAY MONEY BACK GUARANTEE
If you join Total Parenting Transformation and don’t see positive change in your children after applying the techniques and strategies covered, we’ll refund you.
Just send us an email in your first 7 days of joining and the admin crew will help you out. I want there to be NO RISK whatsoever when you decide to enroll and join the community!
What's Inside?
Week 1 - A New Way Of Parenting
Kick-start your Total Parenting Transformation with the foundational concepts we’ll be applying throughout the course. This week, we prepare for a mindset shift by unpacking specific modules on:
- The Old Way of Parenting v The New Way of Parenting
- How We Change Behavior
- How Kids Learn
- The Buckets (AKA: Your Child’s Two Greatest Fears)
- How You Were Parented
- Shame and Vulnerability
Week 2 - How We're Wired
This game-changing week unpacks how the brain works – and why – to provide an insight into your child’s behavior that will explain A LOT.
- Temperament Traits – How far do genetics explain our mental health and psychological traits? And what does this mean for us parents when we communicate with our children?
- Polyvagal Theory – How your child’s automatic nervous system response impacts their ability to learn, and how you can create a safe environment for learning.
- M.O.V.E.S. – The only acronym you’ll need in the world of connection! The M.O.V.E.S technique is a simple, step-by-step script, and it’s my go-to when trying to communicate with others – whether that’s your children, partner, family, friends, or an even irate client!
Week 3 - Understanding Our Emotions
Dive deep into emotional literacy, how it’s developed and why it’s so important for parents to regulate (as well as our children!).
- Emotional Maps – What does the map your parents gave you look like? Does it match the one you’d choose to work with today? Review and develop your emotional map this week.
- Emotional Regulation in Adults – “I hate it when I yell, but I don’t know what else to do!” … Learn why it can be so hard to regulate your emotions, and how to retrain your brain to stay calm and yell less.
- Emotional Regulation in Kids – Little people … big feelings. Make sense of the emotional storms your children encounter AND get the practical tools and scripts to navigate their meltdowns.
Week 4 - Anger
Why does your child have massive meltdowns, or rage around their room like a volatile volcano? Dive in to learn all about anger and how to help them calm the fire within. BONUS – get an insight into your OWN anger and how to manage it effectively.
- Introduction to Anger – Build a solid understanding of anger’s origin, how to treat it, and practical strategies you can immediately implement with your family.
- Anger and Its Two BFFs – Which emotions does anger like to hang out with? Learn what they are and help your kids spot the anger warning signs before they spiral out of control.
- Effectively Managing Anger – Uncover a series of practical methods to manage and understand your child’s anger.
Week 5 - Connection
Your ability to connect with your children – or not – is at the heart of the parent-child relationship.
- Connection 101 – Learn what connection really means, and why it’s so vital in the relationship with our children.
- Practical Strategies To Build Connection – Arm yourself with the tools, techniques and word-for-word scripts used to build connection by thousands of parents around the world.
- Connection – Advanced. Get your connection-building PhD right here!
- Teens & Tech – Unpack my favourite, proven strategies to connect with teens and explore what it is they feel their parents are doing right.
Becoming a Language Translator – Understand the languages everyone is speaking in your home. This can be a profound experience as you begin to see everyone is communicating in their own unique way.
Week 6 - Discipline Without Damaging Self-Esteem
This week, we’ll unpack the helpless feelings that often crop up when you can’t control your child, and understand why we tend to gravitate towards wanting to control those situations.
- The research on strict parenting – Review the long-term research around strict parenting, and the effects it can have throughout a child’s lifetime.
- Conflict Management – Conflict management … the ground-zero for most discipline efforts. How do you manage conflict with your children?
- Setting limits – Discover the three key considerations to take into account BEFORE setting limits with your children.
- Self-esteem – Why do some people have high – and others have low – self-esteem? This video explores how to build your child’s self-esteem for life.
- Confidence – Learn how confidence is built and maintained in your children.
Week 7 - Bringing The Team Together
Creating a tight family unit with a unified purpose can be a game-changer for building connection, self-esteem and resilience. Here’s how…
- Values – Learn why family values are at the core of any family system, review your own personal values, and create ones to apply with your kids!
- Family Contributions – We look at reframing ‘chores’ and what they can teach children about confidence and self-esteem by being a team player.
- Maintaining Routines – Routines are key to providing a sense of safety and security for children. We’ll look at how to create them & get buy-in.
- Family Meetings – Discover how families and parenting gurus use this tool to create a family culture of collaboration and connection.
Week 8 - Sibling Rivalry
This powerful week will help you navigate conflict, identify the kind of person you’re hoping your children become, and learn how to build sibling relationships so they become friends for life.
- How to Regulate, Connect, & Coach Siblings in Conflict.
- Emotion Coaching Our Children.
- What to Say When Siblings are Fighting.
- Emotional Intelligence and Negotiation Skills.
- Reducing Insecurity and Competitiveness.
- Nurture Bonding and Prevent Future Rivalry.
Week 9 - Managing Anxiety
This key week helps you build the skills you need to understand and manage your own anxiety, while empowering your children to understand and manage theirs.
We look at the different types of anxiety, how they can impact your life, and how to tackle them:
- PAST – Where does anxiety come from? Learn how our upbringing impacts the way we manage our own anxiety.
- PRESENT – Why do we have anxiety, what does it look like, and what’s the relationship between genetics and anxiety?
- FUTURE – What can I do about it? Empower yourself with practical tools and strategies to help your child manage their anxiety.
Week 10 - Body Safety And Protective Behaviors
Equip your kids with the information they need to keep their bodies safe. This week will help you teach them protective, preventative behaviors.
- What are the types of abuse?
- Who are the people I should be looking out for?
- What are the signs of abuse?
- What is normal/concerning sexual behavior?
- Why don’t kids disclose sexual abuse?
- My child disclosed abuse. What should I do? Not do?
- How do I teach my child how to stay safe?
Meet The Parents Who Actually Enjoy Family Time
Thanks To Total Parenting Transformation
Frequently Asked Questions
Have a pressing question before joining Total Parenting Transformation?
Below is a list of the most common questions we’ve been asked. If for some reason you don’t see your question, just reach out to our support team at: support [AT] heidirogers.com.au so we can assist you!
- MINDSET – beginning with an appreciation of self reflection and acknowledgement that we – as parents – play a large role in the behavior and mental health of our children.
- A focus on consistency – inside Total Parenting Transformation, we cover everything you need to know to create a connected family, happy kids and an enjoyable parenting experience. To achieve these results, you’ll need to consistently apply your learnings – these aren’t one-off fixes you can practice one day and leave for the next 30 – but you will get you results if you put the time in.
- A customisable plan – your family is different. YOU are different. Total Parenting Transformation shows you how to adopt a new parenting mindset by implementing proven strategies and tweaking them based on the VISION you’ve created for yourself and your family, and its individual needs.
Total Parenting Transformation is provided for informational purposes and is designed to help families build stronger connection and increase their parenting confidence, strategies and tactics. It is not therapy and shouldn’t be used as a replacement for therapy.
For more information, see the Total Parenting Transformation Terms.
How much time are you spending right NOW dealing with challenging behaviors, not knowing what to do in a given situation and bargaining with your children?
There’s nothing more essential to the happiness of your family, your life and the relationship with your children than the ability to meet their psychological and emotional needs.
If it was easy, everyone would have picture-perfect families and therapists would be out of a job.
If this program sounds like a beast, it might just be because you feel overwhelmed in your parenting life. And you’re trying to imagine how you’ll add this program to your existing ‘to-do’ list.
Total Parenting Transformation is the ANTIDOTE to overwhelm. It’s a system designed to give you focus and clarity on your parenting style. It will help you align your actions so you can see the BIG PICTURE of where your family is headed.
Also, you have access to all live trainings and past Q&A call recordings in Total Parenting Transformation. It is not the type of program where you have to gorge on the content quickly in order to see huge changes in your family. Inside the membership, you can choose to consume the fundamentals and watch each course in order, or pick the most pressing issues you’d like to tackle TODAY.
That doesn’t require watching every video and completing every worksheet!
So, if you can commit an hour a week to the training, you can begin to see a whole new level of growth and progress in your family immediately.
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“Just think about the amount of time you spend watching Netflix! I’m a single mom, I’ve got twins, I’m homeshooling AND I’m working full-time. If I can find the time, so can you.”
– Total Parenting Transformation Student Kimberley
Seeing me weekly in the clinic comes in at over $12,000 annually.
And even then, you’d have to wait to ask any questions that pop up between sessions. That doesn’t happen when you have a community forum that I’m in most days. It’s a no-brainer!
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“Even just doing the first few weeks has been enough value for us. If I think about the money we spend, and I think about the price of a holiday – would I choose this over a holiday? I’d choose it over holidays for the next five years. For us to have had all that we’ve learned … this has given something that’s worth a lifetime. I would wholeheartedly recommend Total Parenting Transformation with all my heart, because it’s given us everything.”
– Total Parenting Transformation Student Sarah
Many times students will approach me with a similar sentiment. Total Parenting Transformation is perfect in these situations as you can get the information you need and begin applying it IMMEDIATELY.
And if, like most students, you find there’s a LOT of other strategies and mindset shifts you could start applying for a more connected family after you join, you can jump in to whatever topic piques your interest! Together, we can illuminate the way forward and help you start enjoying parenting even more!
So, unless you’re already enjoying every aspect of parenting and what you’re doing is WORKING, chances are Total Parenting Transformation is what you need to help you realize your parenting vision right now.
Awesome question! It doesn’t matter if you’re facing debilitating anxiety or horrendous tantrums … Total Parenting Transformation is designed to meet your child’s core emotional and psychological needs.
This builds connection and trust, and minimizes (or outright removes) unwanted / challenging behaviors.
It works with any challenge because it teaches the foundational concepts and strategies that address 99.9% of issues faced by parents (and humans in general!).
Anyone willing to do the work can build connection and parenting satisfaction using Total Parenting Transformation!
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“I asked ‘are there many parents with teenagers on the Q&A calls’? because I thought it was really important that it was just about teenagers. When Heidi said, ‘It will be just as relevant to you if we’re talking about a 5-year-old or a teenager’ … I wasn’t quite believing that. But actually it’s true! You can listen to a Q&A call about a bedtime for a 5-year-old and actually get as much out of it as you would if they were talking about a teenager. I’ve actually learned they’ve got quite a lot in common!”
– Total Parenting Transformation Student Sarah
As you’ll quickly learn, I highly recommend getting your partner on board to support you as you realize the VISION for your family. However, many of my parents do get results while flying solo, and sometimes it’s unavoidable (that’s ok too!).
Approaching your family without a unified parenting philosophy is more difficult, BUT the concepts and strategies you’ll learn will help you create a happier home even if you’re pulling all the weight.
No. It’s never been easier and more favorable for introverts who would like to improve their parenting experience than it is TODAY.
The beauty of online learning is that only YOU need to know you’re a member 🙂 There’s no physical limitations, no time limitations – login whenever you have time!
Upon completing your order, you will receive an email immediately with your login details.
Total Parenting Transformation is a digital video training portal supported by be-weekly Q&A calls.
When you join, your purchase includes INSTANT access to:
- All course videos.
- All recorded Q&A sessions (searchable by keyword / topic!). Over 200 hours worth of calls at your fingertips, packed with answers to hundreds of parenting questions!
- Entire back catalog of masterclasses and webinars.
- Exclusive, member-only Facebook group.
- Extra TPT login (simply email us and we’ll get your +1 set up!).
- 40+ worksheets, fridge sheets, slides and ‘done-for-you’ cheat sheets.
- Access to our iOS and Android apps.
If you join Total Parenting Transformation and don’t see positive change in your children after applying the techniques and strategies covered, we’ll refund you.
Just send us an email in your first 7 days of joining and the admin crew will help you out. I want there to be NO RISK whatsoever when you decide to enroll and join the community!
For more information see the Total Parenting Transformation Terms.
As a student of Total Parenting Transformation, I want you to know ‘I’ve got your back!’.
You have THREE unique ways to get the support and feedback you need:
- The Private (Members-Only) Parenting Community. This is your community. This is your chance to ask questions and get feedback about your parenting challenges. You may be surprised how many people have faced – and overcome – similar situations!
- Your LIVE Q&A calls. As a new student, you’ll also receive LIVE Q&A calls with me and the other members. Any questions or clarification you need can be directed to me LIVE on our calls!
- My Support Team. Any ‘technical’ issues about your membership (billing, login, etc.) can be addressed by Leigh and our support team in quick time!
